I do not want to bore you with a mundane life post, although I will. Life for Minxy and I at the moment is pretty boring. This is the real life we live.
You might feel that we are living the chastity lifestyle 24/7, but I can confirm that we are not. While we may have occasional play time with our poly partners, our personal sex life has gone by he wayside.
Life with Lil’ Minxy has taken over, and we probably need to make more time for each other. I hardly wear the Jail Bird any more, although I have worn it a few times, the most recent was on holidays for one awesome evening.
I would like to get back into wearing it on a full-time basis, with it only coming off for grooming, or play times, or possibly not at all.
To get to that stage, I simply need to groom downstairs, and then put on the Jail Bird. I then need to carry on with real life. Also, Minxy and I need to sit down and work out some ground rules.
The biggest thing that holds me back from launching right into this, is the lack of drive that I occasionally (well mostly) have. The days go by where I turn Minxy down, and want nothing to do with sex. The point of chastity is to make the sex drive go crazy. My libido says otherwise.
So maybe Minxy and I need to set some ground rules if we include a new stage of chastity into our real life. Rules where I can’t say no to Minxy except under exceptional circumstances. They say doing something makes you want to do it more, maybe it works with sex. We can only try.
So that is the current real life status of Minxy and I. A lack of chastity and a desire to include more chastity in my life. Maybe we can make something of it and find my mojo again.