As always, I am looking for new types of content to publish here on MinxyandCaged.com. Now I’m sure that many of you are aware that I follow Thumper, on Twitter and his blog. One thing that Thumper does is keep track of how long he is locked in each of his chastity cages. I am open to tracking my own state of lockdown.
While I do not have as many devices as Thumper does, I have been in the Jail Bird longer in December than most of the year. Given my desire to cage up more frequently, I have an interest in the metrics of how long I wear my device.
It may seem pointless to study the metrics given I only have one cage, the Jail Bird. I have been thinking about purchasing a new chastity cage. Whether I purchase a Steelheart or the Beast Muzzle is still undecided. The cash funds for a new custom device are not exactly flowing, so for now it is a dream, but one day we will own another high quality custom chastity device.
For now, any metrics I share will be about my current chastity status. I am not sure whether I want to track orgasms or not, mainly due to my lack of libido and the lack of desire for orgasms. Orgasms come when the mood is right, but most of the time they are unwanted. Hopefully this desire for chastity will help reverse the current downswing/low period.
Being the first month of keeping track of my time in the Jail Bird, I have been trying to find an app that displays the data in a way that is visual. Unfortunately I can not use the awesome app that Thumper uses as I do not own an iOS based device. So I have resorted to the best available Android app, aTimeLogger.
For the month of December, I was in the Jail Bird for 486 hour out of a total of 744 hours for December. This is approximately 65% of the month caged. This is not as impressive as Thumper’s December where he was locked up for 98.8% of the month. This may happen for me one day in the future.
The nerd in me likes the look of this, but how long I stick to updating the app to track my chastity status is anyone’s guess. It would be nice to have a few different cages to rotate through, this will happen sometime in the future, although when is anyone’s guess.
Here’s to tracking my chastity status in 2017. Cheers.
Caged: I want to experience someone milking my prostate, that opportunity came true a few days ago.
Minxy and I have not been very intimate of late. We knew we had to do something about it. I made a few private suggestions via Kik and made Minxy a little flustered at work. We agreed to follow through on Friday evening.
As Minxy was picking up Lil’ Minxy, I came home from work and plugged myself with the Luv Plug from Metal Worx. I pushed it inside of me and felt it lean against my prostate. It felt good to have a plug inside my arse, one with some weight behind it as well.
As I have not worn a butt plug for quite some time, I was continuously clamping my kegel muscles to hold the plug in even though I knew it would not fall out. When we arrived home, I needed to remove the plug as I could not take the clenching much longer.
Once I had removed the plug, and Lil’ Minxy had gone to bed, Minxy & I headed upstairs to our bedroom. Minxy showered and when she came out of the ensuite, she asked me to shave her mound. Minxy loves a smooth, hair-free mound, especially to shove in my face.
Once Minxy was hair free, she assisted in removing my hair. The razor floating over my skin and pulling hairs away. Soon I was hair free as well, and I caged my hardening cock.
I lay back and Minxy gave me a blindfold to cover my eyes and deprive my visual sense. Once I was blindfolded, I lay back and Minxy cuffed my arms and legs to our under bed restraints. One-by-one she clipped my arms and legs and tightened the straps to hold me down.
Once Minxy had finished tying me down, she gathered up the implements she would use. I had no idea what she was getting out until she used each one of them somewhere on my body.
First Minxy used her flogger on me. Starting gently on my legs, then teasing me by dragging the flogger tips over my feet, legs, and body. Her strokes on my legs became stronger, and then there were gentle strokes against my caged balls. I flinched with most strokes no matter how hard or soft Minxy used the flogger.
Minxy grabbed our clover clamps, she placed one on each nipple and tugged at each of them in turn. Being a person who finds pleasure in sexual pain, I moaned and groaned with each tug. As with clover clamps, a tug makes them clamp tighter.
Minxy pulled out her paddle and started using it in a similar way to the flogger. First on my legs, then gently on my balls, and afterwards tapping my clamped nipples. The pleasure in pain had me squirming with each and every paddle, clamp pull or flogging.
The flogging and paddling went on for what felt like an hour, although it was probably just half an hour. Paddling and flogging caused me to flinch with every stroke.
At the end of the flogging and paddling, we moved to the main reason for the evening of play, milking my prostate. Milking my prostate is on my kink list, but I have not followed through to date because I am too scared to do something outside of my comfort zone.
As I was wearing a blindfold, I did not know what Minxy was planning to do with her fingers. I felt her press against my tight hole. Slowly working her lubed finger inside me. Once her finger was inside me, I could feel pressure on my prostate. Pleasurable pressure with every stroke of her fingers.
With each milking stroke, cum oozed from my caged cock. Minxy lapped at my cum covered and caged cock.
Minxy inserted a second finger as well. The second finger is to start working on slowly stretching me to prepare my body for another one of my kinks, pegging.
The milking continued stroke after stroke with my cock oozing cum each and every stroke. Minxy stretched me to my limit. I had to play my safe word. I could take no more pleasure.
Caged: You wouldn’t think milking could sap your energy, but it does.
After my milking, it was now time for one of Minxy’s squirting orgasms.
Minxy lay on the bed between my legs, pushed her wet pussy against my caged cock, and thrust her glass dildo inside her, making her moan and groan. All I could do was listen to her moans as she thrust the dildo inside her wet pussy. She grabbed her Lelo wand, rubbed it against her pierced clit hood, as I tried to move my cock closer.
She brought herself over the edge, squirting cum all over my caged cock as she moaned in pleasure. The warm cum all over my caged cock felt like heaven. I have not been able to feel Minxy’s warm squirting cum over my cock as she had an orgasm. I shuddered in pleasure at the feeling of warm cum gushing all over my cock.
Caged: There are a few more details I would like to include however it was simply a ruined orgasm or two, and a cleanup afterwards. Not very exciting details that can be left off and doesn’t change what happened. It was an amazing evening, and one that won’t be hard to forget.
I do not want to bore you with a mundane life post, although I will. Life for Minxy and I at the moment is pretty boring. This is the real life we live.
You might feel that we are living the chastity lifestyle 24/7, but I can confirm that we are not. While we may have occasional play time with our poly partners, our personal sex life has gone by he wayside.
Life with Lil’ Minxy has taken over, and we probably need to make more time for each other. I hardly wear the Jail Bird any more, although I have worn it a few times, the most recent was on holidays for one awesome evening.
I would like to get back into wearing it on a full-time basis, with it only coming off for grooming, or play times, or possibly not at all.
To get to that stage, I simply need to groom downstairs, and then put on the Jail Bird. I then need to carry on with real life. Also, Minxy and I need to sit down and work out some ground rules.
The biggest thing that holds me back from launching right into this, is the lack of drive that I occasionally (well mostly) have. The days go by where I turn Minxy down, and want nothing to do with sex. The point of chastity is to make the sex drive go crazy. My libido says otherwise.
So maybe Minxy and I need to set some ground rules if we include a new stage of chastity into our real life. Rules where I can’t say no to Minxy except under exceptional circumstances. They say doing something makes you want to do it more, maybe it works with sex. We can only try.
So that is the current real life status of Minxy and I. A lack of chastity and a desire to include more chastity in my life. Maybe we can make something of it and find my mojo again.
I have previously shared my kink list and its contents. This story is how I crossed off one item from the list on the Polyquad Squad Holiday.
Basically, this was like the weekend with friends, but adding completely new experiences.
The Polyquad Squad as we call ourselves agreed to try something new on what we have called the Polyquad Squad Holiday. We had discussed plans to tie each of us to a bed with some restraints, while the rest of us focused our attention on teasing and pleasuring the restrained person.
The first night of the Polyquad Squad Holiday saw Mr. N, Minxy and Mrs. N experiencing being restrained and pleasured. Tiredness overcame all of us and we had to adjourn for the evening. My turn arrived the following evening.
Minxy shaved my cock and balls early in the day before I was locked into the Jail Bird. We went out and about to do some “hunting and gathering” of some supplies. The evening we had dinner out, and then back to the resort. Once little Minxy was out, the fun could begin.
I was ordered to strip naked and lay back on the bed. Then Mr. & Mrs. N restrained me to the bed while Minxy put the blindfold on me. When you lose one sense, the others become heightened. My hearing and touch became sensitive to what was happening around me.
I lay back, spread eagle, my ears open to listening to what was happening around me. I could hear kissing and touching going on in the background as the other members touched and fondled each other while ignoring me briefly.
Soon there were hands all over me, hands on my legs, hands on my arms, and hands on my torso. They dragged their fingers across my legs, nipples and everywhere else.
The room went silent, and I could feel my heartbeat in my ears. Then I could feel the girls kneel on the bed either side of me, their mouths hovering over my nipples. They sucked a nipple each, and even kissed each other over my body. Meanwhile Mr. N got behind Minxy and pounded her wet pussy. Minxy whispered in my ear, telling me how good it felt to be filled with a hard cock. My cock strained in the cage and my cock started leaking pre-cum. The pounding continued and Minxy kept telling me how good the hard cock felt.
Mr. N then walked around the bed and slid his hard cock inside Mrs. N. As he pounded her wet pussy, my fingers slid along Minxy’s and Mrs. N’s legs to touch and rub my fingers over their clits. I strained at the restraints to reach up and touch their wet pussies.
Mrs. N moaned in my ear with each thrust. She also nibbled and sucked on my ear. Her moans caused me to strain even more against the steel bars of the Jail Bird. As Mrs. N was doing this to me, Minxy was nibbling and sucking on my nipples, dragging her nails all over my body, legs and arms.
My ears could hear every single movement in that room, every breath, every thrust, every moan and groan of pleasure from every person in the room.
Mr. N thrust his cum covered cock into my face. I lifted my head to slip my lips around the head of his cock. It tasted great covered with Mrs. N and Minxy’s pussy juices mixed together. I sucked on it over and over, thrusting my mouth along his hard shaft.
Soon, Mr. N held my head down, and then thrust his cock into my mouth, essentially fucking my face. There were a few gags to be expected from an inexperienced cock sucker such as myself. (Even though it is on my kinks list, I am surprised by how much I enjoyed the experience.) Mr. N continued to fuck my virgin mouth, I gagged a few more times before he withdrew and then fucked Minxy from behind again.
Much time had passed, the girls fumbled about for the key to release my caged cock. Soon, the key was inserted, and the padlock removed. With some slippery hands, the cage was removed, and soon the base ring was removed. Mr. N encouraged the girls to snuggle up with me after being released. I was still yet to orgasm even though Mr. N made sure both Minxy and Mrs. N had been pleasured.
As the girls snuggled into me after releasing the cuffs, Mr. N grabbed some lube and wrapped his hand around my hard cock. With some gentle strokes, my cock was harder than before, and I was on the verge of an orgasm. The girls teased my stiff nipples as Mr. N continued stroking.
A few more strokes from Mr. N and my cock was spasming, spurting warm globs of my sticky cum all over Mr. N’s hand and the bed. The waves of pleasure surged through my body. I groaned in pleasure with each spurt.
My high was coming to an end, and Mr. & Mrs. N and Minxy surprised me with one final trick up their sleeves (or lack thereof). They each stroked my cock, in turn, from the base of my cock to the tip. My cock slowly softening.
Now as the evening was drawing to a close, I was floating on Cloud 9 as a member of the Polyquad Squad who had experienced being restrained, blindfolded and having my mouth fucked as part of a group experience.
These few days were some of the best sexual experiences I have had. I hope that the Polyquad Squad gets to experience this and more in the future.
Thank you to Mr. & Mrs. N and Minxy for this wonderful experience.