While I have called myself the caged human, I feel that my sexuality is fluid and I am unable to settle on a single identity. I am a person who deals in black and white and would like to put myself in a single category. Some days I have no sexual feelings at all, and would call myself an asexual. Other days, my sexual attraction is to both men and women and I would probably call myself a bi- or pansexual. And yet other days I would have to call myself a heterosexual as my attraction is purely towards females. I seem to have a sexual fluidity that does not sit in any one category or orientation for more than a few days at a time. Some days I would love to have a simple life where I had a fairly static sexuality that could be locked into a predetermined category and I would be happy. But I also feel that being static is not me either. ...
Ramblings
Caged Asexual
I think I have resigned to effectively calling myself an asexual. My desire for sex is negligible and I have no desire to even chase after it at the moment. If these happen to me, then so be it. I am pretty sure some, if not all, of them have already happened to me. ...
I’m Late to the Party
I tweeted the other day about not writing regularly here on Minxy & caged, and I realised that it is almost the end of January & I am yet to write a blog post for 2018. While I am not one to set New Year Resolutions, I would like to have some firsts in 2018, just as there were a few firsts in 2017. Bruised I want to be spanked or caned to the point of welts & bruises showing on my behind. While I have not been pushed that far before, I really want to have my masochist limit pushed & see my threshold. My only problem is that neither Minxy nor my girlfriend are that way inclined. It looks like I am going to have to find myself a Domme to be able to experience my bruising wishes in 2018. Anal Sex So far I have been pegged twice (one I have written about) and I look forward to a few more during 2018 whoever they may be ...
Top 100 Sex Blogs of 2017
And here we are; The Top 100 Sex Blog 2017 list. If you have not read the housekeeping post from yesterday please do so, Like Xmas Eve for Sex Bloggers, as it contains important information and thoughts about the list. It might also answer any questions you have about the list (especially if you want to know why you are not on it) and most importantly of all a very big thank you to my amazing sponsors of the list Chaturbate. Also let’s not forget the past winners of this list who are: Sinclair SexSmith (2008) Coquitten (blog no longer available. 2009) (No #1 winner in 2010) Guy New York (2011) Molly’s Daily Kiss (2012) Lady Pandorah (Blog no longer open. 2013) Girl on the Net (2014) A Dissolute Life Means… (2015) Domme Chronicles (2016) New Voice of the Year Award This award goes to a blog(s) that are new this year and therefore have ...
What’s Been Happening with Caged?
As you can tell, neither Minxy nor myself are regular writers, and I personally doubt my ability to write, although there are some followers who continue to tell me that there is nothing wrong with my writing. I just find it hard to believe these outside positive ideas and comments. I always feel the need to give more weight to the negative thinking I produce than the positive thoughts I have, or the influences that come from outside. I have been advised that it would be better for my mental health to focus on the positives over the negatives which makes complete sense. It is just one of the hardest things to do, change the way you think by default. I am trying and seeing some of the benefits of doing so, but it is easy to fall into old habits. In addition to sorting out my mental health, I have been sorting out my physical health. I ...