We are looking to start a new Question & Answer series here on Minxy and caged. Minxy and I would like to help you guys get to know us better and answer your questions about our lifestyle choices and more. We will do our best to answer all of your questions. However some may require more detailed answers which we may not be comfortable sharing on the blog. We will reply to your questions by email where possible. Please send us your questions using the form below and we will answer them as soon as possible. ...
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Doug asked: I've been wearing my device for 4 months. My wife holds the keys and has grown to enjoy role playing /easing me until I start to leak pre-cum. She noticed that getting me to release is easier with each session. Is this normal ? Or does is show that she is condition me? thank you Thanks for the question Doug. It is great when your wife gets involved in your chastity. I know that Minxy has grown into the role over time. Now, onto the next part of your comment regarding "release". I'm not quite sure exactly what you are referring to, however I suspect that you are referring to orgasms during play time. I personally have found the opposite. It sometimes takes extra time to finally achieve an orgasm. However it takes time and control to learn to delay orgasm. It also requires you to edge, something which you can either do ...
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It has been a while since we have blogged about chastity in our relationship, and it seems to have been picked up by one of our readers. Anonymous has a few questions for us: Hey Minxy and Caged, I have a few questions and hope that you have the time to answer a few of them from your busy schedules. 1. Does chastity enter into your lives on a regular basis? I get the feeling that for most people it only enters their lives on a part time basis, but wearing the actual cage is a more permanent aspect? What you are asking is pretty much the case for our relationship. While I wear the cage for the majority of the time, actual chastity play generally happens when Minxy wants some physical attention, and one way to get my attention is to tease me by playing to my locked cock. 2. What device would you recommend to someone new to male ...
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I have wondered what it is about male chastity that makes men interested in agreeing to have their prized possession (their cock) locked into a cage, and giving the key to the lock away to their partner, an online Mistress, or using a system like Emlalock.com to detain the key for a period of time. I honestly couldn't imagine giving up control of my orgasms like that. What compels you to do it? - Uncaged Man Hi Uncaged Man, I myself initially wondered what it was about giving up the ability to touch myself whenever I wanted and give myself an orgasm. However having given up the ability to choose when my orgasm occurs, what does happen now is that I don't know when my next orgasm will be coming, or what it will be like. While Minxy and I still have sex (when she lets me out), the fact that I don't know when my next orgasm is coming makes ...
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Have you ever noticed any changes in mood when caged has been locked up for a few days? Do you think that the mood changes affect your relationship in a good or a bad way? - Georgia87 Hi Georgia87 Yes I do notice some mood changes, after the first one or two days there is no changes, but when it is about 3 or more days he is clawing to get out, that he will do anything to get out and have his release. He may be locked up for this long mainly because I am a shift worker, so sometimes we don't see each other for a few days. So when we do have time for ourselves, it is more intimate and more satisfying. Minxy ...