How often have you heard a man turn down sex? Probably not very often, but I have done it more often than not of late. I seem to have lost my sex drive. I have been wondering of late whether there is something physically wrong with my body or not. My sex drive has all but disappeared except in select situations. My online reading suggests that there could be many reasons behind a low sex drive, one of which may be low testosterone levels, but could also include stress, depression, and low self esteem, all of which I am certain I have had. So how do I get it back? I am a 30 year old, with my first child on the way, I am on a new sexual adventure, but I still struggle to become aroused at times and I turn down sex from Minxy whether I'm caged or not. When I read stories from the likes of Thumper or CagedMonkey & Lady M, I get turned ...
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A Submissive Desire
Over the last week or thereabouts, my boss at work was overseas on holiday, and I was left in charge of the office and the other employees. Essentially I had to make sure that everyone had work while he was away, the projects were leaving the office on time, as well as attending to any issues that came up for past projects while he was away. Essentially a dominant type role, far from the submissive desire that I had. However towards the end of the week, my mind had somewhat other ideas. My mind wandered down a very different path. I was often distracted by the thoughts of being submissive, thoughts of being at home locked in my Jail Bird, warming and stretching my arse with a butt plug. Eventually I would remove the plug and sit down on a suction cup based dildo and fucking myself senseless until my caged cock is leaking pre-cum ...
A New Device
Having owned the Jail Bird for over twelve months know, my body has become accustomed to the device. As a result of this the Jail Bird can feel and look large at times. Now that my body had adjusted to the Jail Bird I feel that it is time to get a more snug fitting device. At the moment I am leaning towards a device from Steelworxx simply because of our poor exchange rate with the US. The difference in price between the two devices is about $100AUD, which is about 15% of the price for the Jail Bird. Hence why we are leaning towards the Steelheart from Steelworxx. One problem that I am having at the moment is how the sizing on the Steelworxx website relates to the actual device since there is no measurement instructions unlike the Mature Metal website. My understanding is that it is measured differently any my measurements don't cross ...
I Desire to be Caged
It has been a while since I have worn our Jail Bird chastity cage, however my desire to wear it has been growing over the last few days. Here it is, up close in all it's glory. What a magnificent device it is. ...
Custom Chastity Australia?
Have you been following me on Twitter? If so, you may have noticed that I am not too fond of working my 9-to-5 profession. One thought that crossed my mind was to manufacture my own custom chastity device here in Australia. Assuming my own went well, I would look at starting an online store for custom chastity devices manufactured here in Australia. The spontaneous half of my mind tells me that I could make custom chastity devices. However the logical half of my mind tells me that there are not many Aussies who want custom chastity devices. I would be competing with established manufacturers such as Steelworxx and Mature Metal. It would require building a reputation before turning enough revenue to stop working my 9-to-5 job, if full-time is even possible. While I believe it would be fun to make custom chastity devices, I believe the ...