I have a number of subscriptions to blogs from people who are taking care of their lives in ways that appeal to me. They encourage their readers to live simpler lives, removing the unnecessary aspects and possessions from their lives. One of these articles struck a nerve, "Why It's Time to Start Being Selfish." I've always been the kind of person that puts everyone else first, whether it was walking through a door, saying yes to something I don't like, or even doing my best to make sure that my partner orgasms first. I have put others first, and probably as a result had mild depression a number of years ago. I hope that I can say that I am on the way up, even though I have some negative days along the way. Maybe one thing that led to my mild depression is the fact that I wasn't taking care of myself mentally. One quote from the article ...
Body Modification
Thank You for Caring
I'd like to say thank you for everyone who checked in with me yesterday regarding my post about my struggles. I would like to say that I actually wrote it the day before I published it when I was in a decent sized funk. Since then, things have changed for the better, I have gone back to my notes from when I was visiting the psychologist, and realised how I should be thinking rather than letting my mind fall into old habitual thinking patterns. Please just check in with me occasionally, ask how I am going, and whether I have my reminder ring on as well. ...
My Struggles
There are daily struggles in my life, and this is the biggest of them all. I can't see myself ever overcoming it, at least not in the near future. I loathe myself, my body, my job and my life. I believe this has come about because of one thing I do, and that is put everyone and thing in my life above all else. Whether that is my family or friends, right down to my job & money. Everything comes first in my life and I leave the dregs for myself, including my sex life. I wonder if this is the reason for the lack of sex drive, the lack of staying power, and the lack of desire to live in general. As for how to overcome this, I am stumped, and the solution is probably staring me right in the face. Alternatively, I probably just need to listen to those around me rather than listening to the things inside my head. Have you had struggles ...
Pierced Nipples
Wow! I never thought that I would ever get them done. I am not a lover of pain, totally the opposite. But the last few months I have been seeing more people with nipple piercings on twitter, and it intrigued me, and got me curious about them. Then the conversation came up with cagednerd and then I decided maybe I will take the plunge. After some careful consideration, and researching healing times and etc, it didn't seem too bad. And so I took the plunge, I told cagednerd to book me in. Though, I think I more like dared cagednerd to book me in. All afternoon cagednerd had been teasing me, saying that he had booked me in for 4 nipple piercings, VCH and a Princess Albertina. It had me thinking "BRING IT ON", while thinking at the same time that someone didn't want me having any sex for a month. We got to the piercing place and they were ...
Getting my Nipple Pierced?
For the last week or so, I have been considering getting one (or both) of my nipples pierced and surprise my keyholder (& wife). The biggest problem that I am having is finding a reputable piercer in Sydney outside of the CBD and eastern suburbs. It seems as though piercing parlours are a dime a dozen in Sydney. The following pics are just a few examples ...