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The following post has been prepared by RandyFox. A family-owned online store based out of Sydney, Australia. When it comes to the mainstream perception of bondage and bondage toys, the viewpoint tends to be pretty negative, which often turns people off from having a conversation about BDSM. Although there are plenty of reasons as to why there is a negative misconception about kinky sex, it boils down to the fact that people are just unlikely to talk about the subject. After all, it is a sensitive one in all sense of the word. This is extremely unfortunate though as leather restraints, spanking, gags, breath play, and fantasy role-play can be lighthearted, fun, and incredibly enjoyable even to someone who is new to BDSM activities. With this said, let’s shed some light on what bondage play can look like for beginners in comparison to ...
About A caged human
What am I?
I can not seem to work out what I am in a range of different areas in my life? Whether it is work? Or my sexuality? My online presence? Or one of any number of things. While I do not need to fit into any one category, I feel that I need to fit into one (or more) just to satisfy my indecision about what I am. I've mentioned my struggles with each of them in the past, but even now, many months later, I still can not fit myself in one (or many) different categories. I generally lean towards one particular persuasion in all these areas, but I find pieces of me which also exclude me from them at the same time. I'm not a homogeneous being, but I guess we all aren't. But I still struggle with the need to categorise myself even though I know that I don't need to. I am me, and I am what I am, but I need a category. ...
Sexual Fluidity
While I have called myself the caged human, I feel that my sexuality is fluid and I am unable to settle on a single identity. I am a person who deals in black and white and would like to put myself in a single category. Some days I have no sexual feelings at all, and would call myself an asexual. Other days, my sexual attraction is to both men and women and I would probably call myself a bi- or pansexual. And yet other days I would have to call myself a heterosexual as my attraction is purely towards females. I seem to have a sexual fluidity that does not sit in any one category or orientation for more than a few days at a time. Some days I would love to have a simple life where I had a fairly static sexuality that could be locked into a predetermined category and I would be happy. But I also feel that being static is not me either. ...
Caged Asexual
I think I have resigned to effectively calling myself an asexual. My desire for sex is negligible and I have no desire to even chase after it at the moment. If these happen to me, then so be it. I am pretty sure some, if not all, of them have already happened to me. ...
Post Wax Review
I've had two professional waxes done now, and my third is booked in for this weekend coming. I'm loving the post-wax feeling and look of my legs. Now that we are up to three weeks since the last wax, the hair is very visible, and I don't like the look, but I know that it will be gone in a week. But it is much finer and less stiff than my leg hair used to be. I'll try and remember to post a post-wax photo after my next waxing session. ...