I’m not sure if you have seen one my latest tweets over at Twitter?
What does one tell their very vanilla mother when she tells you that she saw your hubby's cage and calls it cruel
— Mrs Minxy (@sexyasianminx) August 25, 2015
As the tweet says, I had a conversation with my mother while we were at my parents place for dinner the other day, and she brought up that she saw on of CagedNerd’s chastity cages and told me that she thought it was cruel.
Now if we have to have another conversation, how do you discuss this topic with a very vanilla mother?
I’d say ‘We’re happy, that’s all you need to know” (if pressed, I might say ‘it’s a sex game’ or something similar and be clear that I wasn’t going to discuss my sex life with her).
If she has genuine concerns about his welfare or safety (good for her!), then I’d encourage her to talk to him to reassure herself that *he’s* happy feels loved, isn’t being abused and etc.
An in depth discussion of justification of your kinks isn’t necessary, and it’s a distraction from the point.
Ferns
I’m not sure what I would say if this scenario came up for me however I would have to agree with Ferns.
Just say that it is something that we play as consenting adults and it is something we enjoy doing together.