While I have called myself the caged human, I feel that my sexuality is fluid and I am unable to settle on a single identity. I am a person who deals in black and white and would like to put myself in a single category. Some days I have no sexual feelings at all, and would call myself an asexual. Other days, my sexual attraction is to both men and women and I would probably call myself a bi- or pansexual. And yet other days I would have to call myself a heterosexual as my attraction is purely towards females. I seem to have a sexual fluidity that does not sit in any one category or orientation for more than a few days at a time. Some days I would love to have a simple life where I had a fairly static sexuality that could be locked into a predetermined category and I would be happy. But I also feel that being static is not me either. ...