I have wondered how to write this post on and off for the last three months. I am still not sure that I can do it justice though, however this is my attempt (although I'm not sure it does the topic justice) on wondering about our anonymity. I have wondered whether we should remove the anonymity of us behind Minxy & caged. At the moment I am leading towards staying anonymous as we both have reasonably visible roles in society that our colleagues and competitors can see and I'm not sure how ready they would be if we were to reveal ourselves. I definitely note that there are others who have revealed their muggle identities on their blogs, however I'm not sure how comfortable I am revealing myself even though I have considered doing so every now and then. While I do not think it would actually achieve anything other than possibly ...
Archives for May 2015
I’m Fucking Sad & Angry
I'm sure that you have all seen my latest public breakdown here on our blog. I am going to do my best to keep this reasonably short, although who knows what will happen with me. I am having another one, and this is not meant to be seen as me trying to sway certain people's opinions one way or the other (even though it may look like I am trying to do so). Minxy started a new roster the beginning of this month, she was previously working an 8hr roster that covered a 24/7 service desk, now the department she works for has change to a 12hr roster covering the same 24/7 service desk. The reason for my breakdown is that I am somewhat over the lack of contact that we now have as a result of the new roster change. There is one shift where I can go to work, and then come home from work all in the space that Minxy has been at work, and by the ...
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Thank You for Caring
I'd like to say thank you for everyone who checked in with me yesterday regarding my post about my struggles. I would like to say that I actually wrote it the day before I published it when I was in a decent sized funk. Since then, things have changed for the better, I have gone back to my notes from when I was visiting the psychologist, and realised how I should be thinking rather than letting my mind fall into old habitual thinking patterns. Please just check in with me occasionally, ask how I am going, and whether I have my reminder ring on as well. ...
My Struggles
There are daily struggles in my life, and this is the biggest of them all. I can't see myself ever overcoming it, at least not in the near future. I loathe myself, my body, my job and my life. I believe this has come about because of one thing I do, and that is put everyone and thing in my life above all else. Whether that is my family or friends, right down to my job & money. Everything comes first in my life and I leave the dregs for myself, including my sex life. I wonder if this is the reason for the lack of sex drive, the lack of staying power, and the lack of desire to live in general. As for how to overcome this, I am stumped, and the solution is probably staring me right in the face. Alternatively, I probably just need to listen to those around me rather than listening to the things inside my head. Have you had struggles ...