How often have you heard a man turn down sex? Probably not very often, but I have done it more often than not of late. I seem to have lost my sex drive.
I have been wondering of late whether there is something physically wrong with my body or not. My sex drive has all but disappeared except in select situations. My online reading suggests that there could be many reasons behind a low sex drive, one of which may be low testosterone levels, but could also include stress, depression, and low self esteem, all of which I am certain I have had.
So how do I get it back? I am a 30 year old, with my first child on the way, I am on a new sexual adventure, but I still struggle to become aroused at times and I turn down sex from Minxy whether I’m caged or not.
I still have nocturnal erections (I know that when I sleep with my cage), but otherwise I don’t feel the bite of the cage like Thumper does when browsing & sharing Tumblr porn. It seems that I don’t even have physical reactions to porn any more.
I feel broken because of this lack of sex drive, especially since Minxy appears to be the opposite of the norm where pregnant women are turned off sex (at least that is my understanding) and I do not have the desire to attempt to keep up with her. It is really frustrating and I’m not sure what to do about it.
My first point of call should probably be my GP to have some blood tests to confirm whether low testosterone really is the main reason behind my lack of sex drive, or there is potentially something else.
Hopefully I’ll report in with an update in the near future.