There are two questions that I really need to answer for myself. Questions that will help me learn something new about myself. Questions that will allow you to learn something about me…
Why Does Chastity Interest Me?
This is an interesting question that I feel needs to be answered, not only for you, but also for myself.
My personal definition of chastity involves people giving up control of their orgasms to a second person to determine when, and how, and why, the person in chastity should receive an orgasm.
So what compels a person to willing give up access to their orgasms? I really have no idea. But what I do know is that I have wanted to experience the loss of control of my orgasms, and agree to having a chastity cage locked around my cock and balls for a while, and I now have the chance to experience it.
Throughout school, and even afterwards, I always believed that males often masturbated on a daily basis. Throughout my time in university whenever I had the house to myself (which was most days) I used to masturbate freely, sometimes many times a day. However after meeting Minxy, the amount of masturbating I did dropped off considerably. I was effectively a member of the chastity world without having an owner.
So why does chastity interest me? I’m guessing the real reason is that because the last ten or so years I have effectively been in a state of chastity, having a chastity cage locked around my cock basically confirms and reinforces that state of chastity.
What about Submission?
Now submission is a harder question to answer. I’m not really sure what it is, but there is something about it that interests me. I am guessing it is probably a false interest where I am the submissive, but my real interest lies in being a Dom and having a submissive female.
This is something that I need to explore more, but I have no idea how I will be exploring it in the future. Although I’m not sure what people will think about a Dom who volunteers to have His cock locked in a chastity cage.